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I wrote Friendly But Not Friends to share a hard-won realization: loyalty without limits in relationships leaves you short-changed. Despite giving 100%, my failure to set boundaries often led to a lack of reciprocity. Loyalty must be paired with discernment. I had to learn when I was giving too much, and to realize that not everyone I showed up for would show up for me. Critically, I learned to trust my spirit’s initial warnings about social dynamics that felt wrong. This book is a guide to navigating social connections with that crucial discernment
