Lynn Wenger
'Till death do us part' takes on a new meaning when your spouse forgets your name but still reaches for your hand...'It’s good to be scared. It means you’ve got something to lose.' - Dr. Richard Webber, Grey’s AnatomyA Story the World Needs to HearWhen Wendy, a nurse who once comforted patients, began forgetting how to use a cell phone, Lynn Wenger became more than a husband-he became an Alzheimer’s caregiver.This personal memoir book chronicles their 40-year love story colliding with early-onset Alzheimer’s, a battle that turned road trips into moments of confusion and date nights into diaper changes. It’s a raw, unflinching account of how dementia caregiving reshapes marriages, tests faith, and forces laughter in the darkest corners.What You’ll Witness in This BookA caregiver for dementia’s daily grind: Battling a $420/month 'miracle' pill scam, decoding Medicare loopholes, and scrubbing urine stains at 3 a.m.The cruel irony of Alzheimer’s disease: A nurse who healed others now struggles to swallow toast. A grandmother who once soothed crying babies now shouts obscenities at TV preachers.Unexpected hope: How 80s rock ballads became Wendy’s last tether to reality-and why Lynn blared Sweet Caroline in hospital rooms.Why This Book MattersAlzheimer’s disease doesn’t just erase memories-it rewires marriages. Lynn’s story isn’t just a memoir inspirational for caregivers; it’s a survival guide for anyone drowning in the chaos of dementia caregiving. With dark humor and brutal honesty, he exposes:Why UTIs accelerate decline (and how to fight back with cranberry juice bribes).The guilt of snapping at a spouse who asks, 'Who are you?' for the tenth time.The moment every caregiver for dementia dreads: signing the memory care papers.Did You Know?60% of Alzheimer’s caregivers develop chronic health issues from stress. Lynn’s hip gave out lifting Wendy; his journals became his therapyMusic outlasts memory: Wendy forgot her grandkids’ names but sang Sharing the Night Together flawlessly-a lifeline Lynn turned into daily karaoke therapy.Who Should Read This Book?Every Alzheimer’s caregiver who’s ever hidden tears in a pharmacy aisle or Googled 'how to bathe a resistant spouse.'Spouses clinging to 'in sickness and in health' while grieving the person they married.Families going through internal guilt, Medicaid, and the ache of kids asking, 'Why does Grandma hate us now?'Anyone seeking dementia books for caregivers that trade platitudes for practicality-and despair for defiant hope.
